Try these nifty little massagers, they fit in between your fingers so you can give a slightly deeper massage with a Crystal energy. The black one (energy Stone) is the biggest with a slightly flatter head, followed by Topaz Jade. The green, rose and white are all the same size. Make sure you apply a generous amount of massage oil before you make contact with the skin.
For people trying for a baby items like this are great for a reconnection. Putting aside the reproductive purposes of sex and just enjoying each others bodies.